potty

i'm buying syifa' a new potty to toilet train her..
Its so horrifying to see her clinging to everything especially when the poo is quite hard..

but till now syifa' is more interested to 'ride' on the potty instead of straining onto it..
pity Mr Bear..(or Mr Bearak as abi called it..)

300 remaja Melayu salah laku seksual, seks bebas

Pengaruh rakan sebaya punca utama gejala: Kajian UPM

KUALA LUMPUR: Kajian terbaru Universiti Putra Malaysia (UPM) mendedahkan lebih 300 remaja Melayu di bandar dan luar bandar berusia antara 13 hingga 25 tahun mengakui terbabit dengan salah laku seksual dan gejala seks bebas, sehingga ada yang menggugurkan janin.

Lebih mengejutkan, kira-kira 85 peratus daripada mereka yang melakukan perbuatan itu, bukan saja tidak kesal, malu atau takut dari segi dosa malah menyifatkan pengalaman berkenaan sebagai menyeronokkan.

Menurut kajian itu, mereka yang terjebak dengan gejala terbabit bukan disebabkan faktor tekanan akibat kegagalan institusi keluarga termasuk rumah tangga porak-peranda, sebaliknya tertarik dengan pengaruh rakan sebaya. Sebahagian besar mereka juga mengakui menerima pendidikan agama mencukupi.

Dapatan itu diperoleh daripada kajian enam bulan bertajuk ‘Keterlibatan Remaja Dalam Salah Laku Seksual’ dengan 400 responden ditumpukan kepada dua kumpulan sasaran di Lembah Klang dan juga kawasan luar bandar, iaitu pelajar sekolah menengah daripada Tingkatan Satu hingga Tingkatan Lima serta remaja di bawah usia 25 tahun. Kajian itu siap sepenuhnya Disember lalu.

Pengarah Pusat Kokurikulum UPM yang mengetuai kajian itu, Prof Madya Dr Mohammad Shatar Sabran, berkata ada responden mengakui terdedah kepada ‘dunia seksual’ seawal sekolah rendah, termasuk muat turun gambar lucah melalui telefon bimbit, menonton video lucah dan melayari laman web pornografi.

Beliau yang memfokus kepada pembinaan modal insan, pembangunan sahsiah dan kemahiran insaniah dalam bidang tugasannya berkata, penggunaan bahasa serta isyarat lucah dalam komunikasi dan pergaulan harian bersama rakan sebaya pada usia begitu mentah juga menjadi amalan mereka.
“Lebih menyedihkan apabila yang menjadi keutamaan remaja terbabit dengan seks bebas itu ialah ‘buat selagi tidak mengandung’. Mereka langsung tidak mementingkan soal dosa seolah-olah agenda ketuhanan tiada dalam hidup.

“Ada responden yang menjawab mereka tahu perbuatan itu berdosa tetapi berkata ‘enjoy dulu, nanti taubatlah’. Ini bermakna remaja berkenaan ada pengetahuan dan kesedaran agama, tetapi ia tidak menyentuh jiwa mereka.

“Walaupun dapatan kajian di luar bandar dan Lembah Klang menunjukkan hasil lebih kurang sama, senario di luar bandar itu boleh dianggap lebih mengejutkan apabila ramai remajanya turut terjebak dengan gejala ini sedangkan kawasan berkenaan tidak mendapat pendedahan seperti di bandar raya,” katanya kepada Berita Harian.

Mohammad Shatar berkata, kajian membabitkan jumlah seimbang dari segi responden lelaki dan perempuan itu dilakukan sebagai projek tahun akhir pelajarnya dengan menyenaraikan 25 aktiviti salah laku seksual daripada peringkat ‘ringan-ringan’ seperti meraba, bercium dan berpeluk hingga peringkat kes berat meliputi seks bebas serta menggugurkan janin.

Beliau berkata, hasil kajian juga mendapati ada beberapa faktor yang umpama ‘mencurah minyak ke dalam api’ yang menambah kepada gejala itu, termasuk kebebasan dan kepercayaan terlalu tinggi diberikan oleh ibu bapa kepada anak.

“Memang amat penting untuk memberi pendidikan agama secukupnya kepada anak, tetapi itu bukanlah jaminan kerana ia mesti dilengkapi pengawasan berterusan daripada ibu bapa. Jangan terlalu bersangka baik atau menjadikan penampilan luaran anak seperti dari segi cara berpakaian dan tingkah laku sebagai ukuran mutlak bahawa mereka selamat atau terhindar daripada pengaruh gejala seks ini.

“Pengaruh luar amat berkuasa terhadap remaja, lazimnya bukan daripada keluarga sendiri. Justeru, ibu bapa tetap perlu berhati-hati dengan menyimpan 50 peratus ketidakpercayaan terhadap anak, termasuk membuat pemeriksaan mengejut dari semasa ke semasa.

“Selain itu, disyorkan ibu dan bapa melakukan ‘pemeriksaan fizikal’ yang sewajarnya dan secara berhemah terhadap anak perempuan dan juga anak lelaki dari semasa ke semasa demi memastikan mereka tidak menyembunyikan sebarang ‘tanda’ berkaitan.

“Dalam konteks ini, jangan mudah terpedaya dengan ideologi kebebasan peribadi dari Barat kerana ada ibu bapa harus mengetepikan elemen privasi demi menyelamatkan anak selagi tindakan yang diambil tidak melampaui batasan,” katanya.

Anti-Israel Protest At Turkey Embassy

KUALA LUMPUR: Lamenting the grief over the violent attack by the Israeli navy commandos on the international humanitarian aid convoy, about 700 supporters today gathered at the Turkish Embassy to submit a memorandum of support.

The supporters, from Ikatan Muslimin Malaysia (ISMA), Aman Palestine, Persatuan Belia Islam Nasional (PEMBINA) and several other NGOs, also chorused "Hidup Turkey, Jahanam Israel" (Long live Turkey, Down with Israel) in front of the embassy.

The president of ISMA and executive chairman of Aman Palestine, Abdullah Zaik Abdul Rahman, said despite the poignant tragedy of the Israeli attack which resulted in 20 being killed and 30 injured. Most of those killed were Turks.

The Turkish government, especially Prime Minister Recep Tayyib Erdogan, has been vociferous in condemning the attack.

"Turkey is the patron of the convoy whose mission was to end the siege in Gaza. Turkey stated this openly. Erdogan's stand against Israel appears strong and courageous. Erdogan is the new hope for Muslims. No Arab leader has dared to rise up against Israel," he said.

He added Turkey's noble stance should be supported and backed with strength.

"Hence, we want to express our support for the Turkish government, especially Erdogan for his firm stand against the Israeli criminals," he said.

Abdullah Zaik added that US$100,000 (RM327,650) worth of medicine and food will be sent overland by 15 to 20 Malaysians including media representatives.

"It will be sent in three weeks through Arafah since Egypt's doors are open."

The CEO of Aman Palestine, Awang Suffian Awang Piut, urged the governments of the world to condemn Israel's cruel act.

"Israel's blockade in Gaza needs to be lifted immediately to give way for the aid to Palestine. Israel should be held accountable for what they have done," he said.

The memorandum was submitted to the Turkish ambassador, Serap Ataay, by the trustee of Aman Palestine, Norhashimah Salleh, president Pembina, Zaizul Azizi Zaman, secretary of Isma, Aminuddin Yahaya and Abdullah Zaik.

Deputy OCPD of Cheras, Abd Rahim Hamzah Othman, said 67 police officers were present at the rally. He said the situation was under control with no untoward incident.

From; The Malay Mail

Let us gather to support!

Anda sedih dengan kematian pejuang2 kemanusiaan Palestin??!

Anda geram dengan tindakan kejam tentera haram Zionis??!!

Anda tak betah berdiam diri di hadapan kekejaman ini??!!

Tahukah anda, pelayaran Lifeline For Gaza (LL4G) bermula di Turki?

Tahukah anda, KERAJAAN TURKI memberi sokongan dan sumbangan yg besar dalam usaha LL4G?

Tahukah anda, 19 orang yg syahid dalam peristiwa Flotilla Freedom adalah warga Turki?

Aman Palestin, ISMA dan PEMBINA menyeru anda utk bersama kami menyatakan BANTAHAN SEKATAN GAZA & SOKONGAN TERHADAP PENDIRIAN KERAJAAN TURKI!!!

Bersama kami berkumpul di KEDUTAAN TURKI (di Jalan UThant) jam 11 pagi pada Jumaat ini (4 JUN 2010)

Kita akan bersama2 berdemonstrasi di Kedutaan Turki (di Jalan U-Thant) dan menyerahkan Memorandum Sokongan dan Ucapan kata2 sokongan drp wakil2 NGO.

Ayuh!!!!!

Kami memerlukan anda utk menyediakan perkara2 berikut utk memeriahkan lagi perarakan kita:

1. Headband (kain ikat di dahi)

- berwarna MERAH

- bertulis "End the Siege!!"

2. Banner, poster, papan tanda dengan slogan2 spt berikut (dan lebih!)

- "We support Turkey!!"

- "Kami sokong Turki!!"

- " Shuhada Hurriyya!" (Arabic)

- "Turkey: Martyrs of Freedom!!"

- "End the Siege!!"

- "Lead, Turkey! Lead!"

....dan lain2 lagi!

3. Gambar PM Turki, Reccep Tayyip Erdogan.

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Sebarkan kpd rakan anda! Guna facebook, twitter, Myspace, Blog, SMS, Call dan apa sahaja cara. Ayuh semua!!

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Anjuran:

Aman Palestin Berhad (http://www.amanpale stin.net)

Ikatan Muslimin Malaysia (ISMA) (http://www.ismaweb. net)
Persatuan Belia Islam Nasional (PEMBINA) (http://www.pembina. com.my)

Life Line 4 Gazza

Israel attacks Gaza aid fleet

Israeli forces have attacked a flotilla of aid-carrying ships aiming to break the country's siege on Gaza. At least 19 people were killed and dozens injured when troops intercepted the convoy of ships dubbed the Freedom Flotilla early on Monday, Israeli radio reported. The flotilla was attacked in international waters, 65km off the Gaza coast. Avital Leibovich, an Israeli military spokeswoman, confirmed that the attack took place in international waters, saying: "This happened in waters outside of Israeli territory, but we have the right to defend ourselves." Footage from the flotilla's lead vessel, the Mavi Marmara, showed armed Israeli soldiers boarding the ship and helicopters flying overhead. Al Jazeera's Jamal Elshayyal, on board the Mavi Marmara, said Israeli troops had used live ammunition during the operation. The Israeli military said four soldiers had been wounded and claimed troops opened fire after "demonstrators onboard attacked the IDF Naval personnel with live fire and light weaponry including knives and clubs". Free Gaza Movement, the organisers of the flotilla, however, said the troops opened fire as soon as they stormed the convoy. Our correspondent said that a white surrender flag was raised from the ship and there was no live fire coming from the passengers. Before losing communication with our correspondent, a voice in Hebrew was clearly heard saying: "Everyone shut up". Israeli intervention Earlier, the Israeli navy had contacted the captain of the Mavi Marmara, asking him to identify himself and say where the ship was headed. Shortly after, two Israeli naval vessels had flanked the flotilla on either side, but at a distance. I Organisers of the flotilla carrying 10,000 tonnes of humanitarian aid then diverted their ships and slowed down to avoid a confrontation during the night. They also issued all passengers life jackets and asked them to remain below deck. Al Jazeera’s Ayman Mohyeldin, reporting from Jerusalem, said the Israeli action was surprising. "All the images being shown from the activists on board those ships show clearly that they were civilians and peaceful in nature, with medical supplies on board. So it will surprise many in the international community to learn what could have possibly led to this type of confrontation," he said. Meanwhile, Israeli police have been put on a heightened state of alert across the country to prevent any civil disturbances. Sheikh Raed Salah,a leading member of the Islamic Movement who was on board the ship, was reported to have been seriously injured. He was being treated in Israel's Tal Hasharon hospital. In Um Al Faham, the stronghold of the Islamic movement in Israel and the birth place of Salah, preparations for mass demonstrations were under way. Protests Condemnation has been quick to pour in after the Israeli action. Mahmoud Abbas, the Palestinian president, officially declared a three-day state of mourning over Monday's deaths. Turkey, Spain, Greece, Denmark and Sweden have all summoned the Israeli ambassador's in their respective countries to protest against the deadly assault. Worldwide outrage has followed the deadly Israeli attack of Gaza aid convoy [AFP] Thousands of Turkish protesters tried to storm the Israeli consulate in Istanbul soon after the news of the operation broke. The protesters shouted "Damn Israel" as police blocked them. "(The interception on the convoy) is unacceptable ... Israel will have to endure the consequences of this behaviour," the Turkish foreign ministry said in a statement. Ismail Haniya, the Hamas leader in Gaza, has also dubbed the Israeli action as "barbaric". Hundreds of pro-Palestinian activists, including a Nobel laureate and several European legislators, were with the flotilla, aiming to reach Gaza in defiance of an Israeli embargo. The convoy came from the UK, Ireland, Algeria, Kuwait, Greece and Turkey, and was comprised of about 700 people from 50 nationalities. But Israel had said it would not allow the flotilla to reach the Gaza Strip and vowed to stop the six ships from reaching the coastal Palestinian territory. The flotilla had set sail from a port in Cyprus on Sunday and aimed to reach Gaza by Monday morning. Israel said the boats were embarking on "an act of provocation" against the Israeli military, rather than providing aid, and that it had issued warrants to prohibit their entrance to Gaza. It asserted that the flotilla would be breaking international law by landing in Gaza, a claim the organisers rejected.

Syifa' Al Hayah is now 1 year old!

Alhamdulillah, anak ummi n abi dah masuk setahun on the 21st of May 2010. Moga menjadi anak solehah wa muslehah, taat pada ALLAH dan Rasul..dan berjuang n berjihad demiMU ya ALLAH..
ameen...

Syifa's birthday on Retreat Pembina Tganu..

Conjunctivitis

Balik dari hospital pergi amik syifa' di rumah Mok Mek. Nampak mata syifa' dua2 belah diselaputi dengan 'discharge' atau nama lainnya tahi mata.

Hem.. sakit mata anak ummi ni..

Tapi takdak sape kat umah ni yang sakit mata.. ( Mok Mek mempertahankan diri)

Actually memang takde contact dengan orang lain yang ada sakit mata. Tapi syifa' ada blocked nose 2-3 hari ni. Ni mungkin ascending viral URTI naik ke mata.

So i put the fucithalmic eyedrop dalam mata syifa',.

Sangat payah,, sebab syifa' bersilat ke kiri dan ke kanan untuk mengelakkan matanya dibubuh ubat..

Maka ku bungkus anakku dengan blanket ( this is a trick utk restrain baby n buat procedure) dan yeye boleh bubuh ubat mata..

beginilah .. ( ada ke patut abi kata.. ummi jahat.. hemm...)